Okay I'm gonna try to be as detailed as possible I'm 16f and my ex bf is also 16 we dated back in 2021 for a month I was undiagnosed with a bunch of stuff and when he broke up with me I was heartbroken I went to the mental hospital etc so I got diagnosed with bpd, ptsd,ocd, etc and went thru a lot of therapy and dot that my mom took me too regular therapy an hour and a half away and group for 3 hours after work for a long time and I got put on antidepressants.now back last year we got back together,we were together for a year.in the beginning of our relationship it was good then we started fighting a lot and he would breakup with me often and every time l'd beg and cry and plead and he didn't like my mom and at one point in time he told her that "if you want a relationship with your daughter when she turns 18 you better back off" or something along those lines and one night I was done and he called me to tell me that I shouldn't of taken my moms side and things I was doing wrong And so I told him I was done he flipped he was crying and pleading and I was like ur a narcissist if u won't change that and stop having me pick between u and my mom we are done so he "did". he broke up with me less. however we argued a lot and it would a lot of the time end in us almost breaking up or him telling me to go home (at the time me and my family were at my grandmas and he wasn't allowed over so I left his house for a month and stayed for a month" and him always calling me a shitty girlfriend or I'm dramatic or illogical or I don't do enough for him also important information he has a high sex drive and I don't really so he would want to and I wouldn't and I don't really so he would want to and I wouldn't a lot and he felt unloved and I had went on birth control bc I'm NOT. Getting pregnant and he wanted me to get off of it bc I never wanted to have sex anyways I woke up one day and was doubting if I wanted to be with him anymore bc I just wasn't really happy and so I told him and I called my mom and she told me to not make impulsive decisions and that wait a couple days to see how I feel and didn't like that I wasn't even doubting but then I just ended it and went home that day. The last two screenshots were from today bc I hold a lot of anger to him however l'm not gonna be a bitch just for fun so l was trying to help also good context. I can't have my cats where l'm at so he has them for right now otherwise I would just block him (also for the last screenshot he does NOT study psychology not while we were together we’ve been broken up for like 20 something days so idk abt that but yeah) submitted by /u/One_News8005 to r/AmIOverreacting |
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