AIO for asking family to be vaccinated before meeting our newborn?

My wife and I recently had our first baby after many years of IVF. All of our family live out of state. Following our doctor’s advice(although wife is also a doctor), we asked that anyone visiting in the first month be up-to-date on their Tdap, flu, and COVID vaccines. We also requested no dogs be brought over during. A few left the group chat and now they are not talking to us.

We weren’t trying to offend anyone, just protect our baby, especially since she has a mild heart condition and is extra vulnerable right now. But now I’m wondering… Am I overreacting?