AIO for telling my boyfriend he needs to leave after tackling me to the ground?? This was during an argument about his attitude towards me, screenshots are the text conversation before he got here

So to give some context, we have been dating for 7 months now. Everything has been great. We argue sometimes, but we’ve been able to make up in healthy ways before. He messages me this before coming here, and I’m already pretty annoyed with the attitude he’s giving me. I think it’s ridiculous to warn me about his attitude before coming over to MY HOME. It’s like you should’ve just not come to see me if you feel like you have to say such things. He comes over and nothing is said, I was in the middle of cleaning my dishes. One of my dishes breaks, and that made me break the ice. I was so upset while washing the dishes, and the energy obviously wasn’t pleasant to me since the plate broke out of no where, and I said to him that I was going to be quiet about his attitude, but that the plate breaking just made me say fuck it an address the situation. At this point he has been here for 5 minutes and hasn’t said anything to me. He gets upset and starts thinking I’m trying to blame him for the plate breaking. Which I’m telling him no that’s not the case, I’m saying I was already upset about his poor attitude and the plate breaking threw me over the edge and now I feel like I have to say something. I wasn’t yelling but I definitely was annoyed. Out of no where while I’m brushing the broken glass up from the floor, he runs from the other side of my apartment yelling at me and tackles me down to the floor. I slide across the floor and my elbow is scrapped in the process. I get up and continue to clean the glass off the floor and start tearing up. He comes up to me and grabs my wrists and asks me if we can talk about the situation, in which I tell him to not touch me and I don’t want to talk about it. He crossed a line that was too much for me as I went through DV in the past. We stay quiet for a couple of minutes and I eventually tell him to leave. He left, but said there’s no reason to leave if I’m just going to type up an essay after he leaves when we can just talk about it right here in person. I told him I don’t feel comfortable/safe and I don’t want another situation happening. He ended up leaving. I cried enough as it is. I been through DV multiple times before. I currently feel numb. I don’t know how to feel or how to go about the situation, I just didn’t want another argument or altercation to occur. submitted by /u/Fragrant-Educator712 to r/AmIOverreacting |
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