AIO is this a red flag?

Hello, I’ve been dating this guy for a while. I’m not allowed to wear tight clothing, associate with men as friends. He believes it’s utterly impossible for the opposite genders to maintain a friendship with healthy boundaries. One day he mentioned playing “ daddy” I didn’t think much of it. I’ve acknowledged that his personality is more dominant. But I recently caught him staring at a woman for 7 minutes, and it made me uncomfortable. I attempted to communicate with him regarding this incident. He invalidated my feelings by saying “ all men stare at women. I’m a man, the dating market isn’t the best and if you think you can find someone better than me then do it. I won’t be able to commit to not staring at other women, I will try.” I felt like this response wasn’t acceptable. I’ve adjusted my clothing to appease him. I don’t have any male friends at the moment, and I can’t interact with other women because he suspects that we are romantically involved because of my sexuality. I genuinely think he views women as objects.