AIO or is the message my bf sent me a bit over the top

I was thinking about getting my tongue re pierced as I had it done when I was 14-16 and now im 18 and I want it done again. I was on a phone call with my boyfriend(M21) and at the end of the call I told him I was going into the piercing place just to make sure I still had the right anatomy. This isn’t the first time I told him I wanted it done again and then once I hung up he sent me this paragraph about 20 minutes later. I find it a bit insane and over the top and that he is overreacting. But maybe I am and he’s right in a sense I honestly don’t know 😂 just want opinions on this