Am I overreacting if I break up with my boyfriend for forgetting my birthday ?

( idk where images show up on the post look at the after reading up to the point they are mentioned then continue <3 )

Me and my boyfriend have very similar birthdays. Three days apart mine was the 12th and his is the 15th. We've talked about this alot actually so I didn't think I would need to remind him o my birthday coming up as his was too

My big day comes ( Yay ! ) and goes with no happy birthday from my boyfriend

I feel I should mention. I am asexual. I don't mind sexual stuff but I expressed it was joking. That if we talk like that. I'm not being serious and he agreed that was fine but it feels like he only ever messages me when his in that mood and it's stung over time

I did get to hear from him on my birthday

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He did apologize and I recognize that. His just overly sexual alot and seems to only remember I exist then

Also if it's in the wrong sub reddit please do forgive me it's my first post lmao

To clarify we're both dudes I'm just trans