Am I Overreacting? My bf (M37) is mad at me (F19) for existing 😞

I’ve been dating my bf for a year and he’s like really mature and I love him, even though all my family and friends tell me he’s bad news. But I don’t really talk to them anymore so it’s okay (my bf said they’re just trying to turn me against him). DON’T tell me to break up with him he’s literally the perfect man and we love each other so so much even though he treats me like actual scum. He just has, like, a dark sense of humour haha. I messed up today by breathing in the direction of a male coworker and my bf is now super mad at me (understandably). AIO???