Dated this girl for 4 months – Finally had the courage to tell her NO

For context, I paid for all the dates. In December 2023 she said she’s looking for a provider, after that things started going downhill. She doesn’t make enough money to afford her frivolous spending habits and her hours were reduced at work and she was given a one week furlough. In January she asked me to pay her rent, for an apartment in Midtown Manhattan which she clearly cannot afford. She continued with if I want her to stay here and not move back to her parents in California then I have to help her out. Her dad is a millionaire and he owns a big construction firm and she doesn’t want to ask him for help lol. This past weekend I finally decided that this was enough and I can’t do this anymore, I cannot pay my way to have a relationship. Sad thing is I opened my heart after 5 years of trashy relationships because she did sweet things in the beginning and I misunderstood that for being actually wanted. The girl is conservative and did not want to have physical intimacy before marriage (she said she’s a virgin), no moving in together before marriage, wanted me to meet her parents after 4 months of dating, would constantly ask for money every few weeks and put the gun of marriage on my head, finally had enough.