AIO for refusing to pay for my bsfs tuition after she called me a pedophile?

For clarification this has been happening for a while. Almost everything I do when it comes to hygiene or beauty she says I’m doing it “for the patriarchy”. I literally have no idea what she’s talking about or where she’s getting these ideas from.

Then she uses my trauma (that I trusted her with) against me. I stopped paying for her tuition after this conversation and I feel bad because she’s been going through so much lately with her family and work. I don’t know what to do.