My sister in law made me feel like crap over my allergy

For context, I am deadly allergic to a lot of seafood. Some of them are okay, some make me feel like death. So, when I saw what they were serving for their sit down dinner at the reception, I noticed 70 percent was seafood, and the rest could possible be contaminated. They have a salad bar and sundae bar planned, but my brother mentioned a while back they were concerned about having enough food.

Anyways, I sent these messages to my SiL and it made me feel like.. shit for even bringing it up. I guess it wasn't a huge deal, bur definatley made me feel bad for even asking.

(Shes blue, im yellow)

Sorry for all my typos. Im.. really bad at texting. Lol.